9:23AM
EDT 8/22/2013 JENNIFER LECLAIRE
“Behold,
I will do a new thing, now it shall spring forth; shall you not know it? I will
even make a road in the wilderness and rivers in the desert” (Is. 43:19).
That
rhema word from Scripture nearly four years ago kicked off a season of change
in my life that hasn’t quit. I’m convinced that I’ve seen more changes in my
life over the past few years than many people see in two decades. I’m talking
major life changes. Some of those changes produced immediate joy. Others
produced prolonged pain before producing joy.
I’ve
noticed a cycle, if you can call it that, where one change comes at the heels
of another and then another—finally followed by the avalanche. Some of the
changes are welcomed while others are gut-wrenching, even when you know it’s
God’s will. I still don’t like change, but I’ve learned to embrace it because
I’ve seen the fruit of faithfully following God through life's transitions—and
that fruit is good!
Facing
Sweeping Changes
Maybe
you are seeing sweeping changes in your life even now. Whether they are welcome
changes, like getting married and having a baby, or unwelcome changes, like
getting divorced and losing a loved one to death, change can cause confusion,
stress, delight, anticipation, fear, joy—a whole range of fickle emotions that
ebb and flow with what seems like the powerful rush of a rolling tide.
Before
we go any further, understand this: The only thing that doesn’t change is God.
Jesus Christ is the same yesterday, today and forever (Heb. 13:8). Everything
else—I said everything else—is subject to change. I won’t recite all the words
of Solomon here, but suffice it to say that “to everything there is a season, a
time for every purpose under heaven” (Eccl. 3:1).
So
if you are going through a season of change—especially gut-wrenching
changes—how do you position yourself to walk worthy of your calling? How do you
yield to God’s will while resisting the enemy? How do you embrace the change
that will produce more of the character of Christ and the fruit of the Spirit
in your life—and perhaps in the lives of others involved?
Learning
to Let Go
Keeping
your eyes on God, who doesn’t change, is the critical first step (Heb. 12:2).
The Lord really is your rock, your fortress and your deliverer (Ps. 18:2). His
hope is the anchor of your soul (Heb. 6:19). When you keep your mind on Him,
you’ll remain in perfect peace even amid the most stormy changes (Is. 26:3).
When you keep your eyes on Him, you’ll find that road in the wilderness and the
rivers in the desert that Isaiah prophesied (Is. 43:19).
Next,
you’ve got to be willing to let go of what the Holy Spirit is showing you to
let go of. If you want that new beginning—if you want that new thing God has in
store for you—then you must let go even if it feels like it’s going to kill
you; even if you have to do it through tears; even if other people don’t agree
with you; even if you can’t see where to go next. When you let go, He’ll show
you what to do next, just like he showed Abram what to do when he left
everything behind to follow God (Gen. 12:1-3).
The
letting go part is probably the hardest part of the change process. I’ve
written several articles—including "How to Forget Those Things Which Are
Behind," "Burning the Bridges to Your Past," and "Are You
Willing to Leave Your Baggage Behind?"—on this topic because it’s a real
pain point for people. I had to learn that lesson and learn it well, and you
should too.
Sometimes
there are soul ties with people, churches or even things that you need to
break. The pull you feel to keep going back to the same people and things God
has told you to leave behind is often a soul tie. A soul tie is a deep
emotional bond. When David met King Saul’s son Jonathan, there was an immediate
bond between them. The Bible says, “The soul of Jonathan was knit to the soul
of David, and Jonathan loved him as his own soul” (1 Sam. 18:1). That’s
intense. When you move on, sometimes you have to break soul ties, in the name
of Jesus, before you can move forward full speed.
Pursuing
the New Vision
Once
you’ve let go of the people, places and things holding you back, ask God for a
new vision. What does God have next for you? I assure you, He has a new thing
in mind. God may even resurrect an old dream you thought was dead. You won’t
see this spiritual vision come to pass overnight—there is a time of transition
between the old and the new—but with clarity, you’ll have the discipline you
need to keep pressing forward (Prov. 29:18).
During
this transition time, pursue any emotional healing you need. We all suffer
wounds from the words and actions of others, from the work of the enemy, from
our own sinful mistakes, from disappointing life events and even from doing the
work of the ministry. Sometimes we have to suffer for Christ (Phil. 1:29). It’s
easy enough to get resentful, bitter and unforgiving. But walking toward your
new beginning means letting go of these things also. Be assured that God is
using it all for good (Rom. 8:28).
Many
men in the Bible suffered great losses on their way to greatness. Just look at
Job, Joseph and David. But all of these men endured the enemy’s best shot and
took back what he stole—and then some. Each of them had a new beginning that
brought glory to God. They persevered, kept their eyes on God and waited on His
deliverance. So while you are enduring gut-wrenching pain, take comfort in
God’s Word: “Behold, I will do a new thing, now it shall spring forth; shall
you not know it? I will even make a road in the wilderness and rivers in the
desert” (Is. 43:19). Amen.
Jennifer
LeClaire is news editor at Charisma. She is also the author of several books,
including The Spiritual Warrior's Guide to Defeating Jezebel. You can email
Jennifer at
jennifer.leclaire@charismamedia.com or visit her website here. You can
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