Being
a dad is one of the toughest jobs in the world. It ranks right up there with
being a husband. Let’s say they are No. 1a and No. 1b. Wouldn’t you agree?
But
both have their perks. There aren’t many things, if any, that can provide as
much joy. If you have never been in love before, once you become a dad, it all
changes.
1.
You get to be a kid again. Remember when you were a kid and you always wanted
to be a grown-up? Your parents may have looked at you and said, “Enjoy being a
kid.” Well, when you have kids, that big kid inside comes out, and you get to
experience all those fun kid experiences again. I always say I am still a kid
... just a kid with responsibilities.
2.
Being a dad keeps you young. Although you may not have realized it, there was a
time when you were not only aging, but you were acting and feeling like it.
Your music choices changed, and you were unaware of a lot of things going on
around you. When you become a dad, you quickly get up to speed on the newest
things. You find yourself knowing what’s hot and what’s not, just so you can
understand your kids a little better.
3.
You find out how much you can love someone else. How often has your kid been
sick and you wished you could trade places with them? When you are a dad, you
have more than one heartbeat. You have yours and your kid’s. When they hurt,
you hurt. But when they have joy, you probably have more joy than they do.
4.
You grow as a person more than you ever have. When our first child was born, I
felt like I grew up overnight. Hanging out with the fellas and dragging into
work the next day went out the door. Spending money like it was guaranteed to
replenish itself the next month was no longer acceptable. Being the man I was
at that point was not good enough to be the dad I wanted to be. My process of
intentional growth began.
5.
You become a hero—instantly. When my youngest son looks at me now, he doesn’t
see my flaws. In fact, he probably sees me as invincible. When something scares
him, he runs to me. When he wants something, he runs to me. (Well, sometimes he
goes to my wife.) When he wants to play, he asks me to play. To our kids we are
heroes, even when we mess things up.
6.
You have the opportunity to pour into your kids. Your kids depend upon you to
not just provide, but to teach them about life. You get the opportunity to
train them up “in the way they should go” like the Bible says. What a great
privilege and opportunity that is!
7.
You get to hope someone is way better than you. Up until this point, your life
may have focused on making yourself No. 1. But when you have kids, your focus
shifts to hoping, helping and doing whatever you can to make sure they become
better than you. And not just a little better, but way better!
There
are so many things to love about being a dad. What do you love most about it?
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